When to Pursue Marriage

“So how do we know when to pursue someone for marriage?  When we do not need marriage. When we are full and growing in our relationship with Christ, then and only then, are we really ready for marriage. Adam did not tell God he was lonely. In Gen 2:18 God said, ‘It is not good for man to be alone, I will make him a suitable helper.’ Elizabeth Elliott was asked how she found three husbands. Her response was ‘I did not find any husband because I was not looking for a husband.’ God will determine our need and readiness and will lead us to marriage when the time is right.”

- R.D. Hodges, The Greatest Adventure I Never Dreamed Of (forthcoming)